Thursday, November 19, 2015

The Discipline of Thanks

Thanksgiving is quickly approaching—the time we are supposed to express our thankfulness to God. The Scriptures remind us often of this truth: Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (I Thessalonians 5:18) and I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of your wonderful deeds (Psalms 9:1).

I wonder how many of us have thought about “why” we should be thankful to God? I’m not sure many of us have. I have a Facebook and Twitter account. I have many friends, colleagues and family with whom I stay in contact and follow through these social media feeds. All of us post pictures, share videos, rant and rave over the latest news or political issues, share recipes and invite people to events. Unfortunately, some use it to bully others, air their personal laundry, debate issues and call people out for their beliefs and/or political views. What I find missing in most of the social media feeds, including mine, is thankfulness, compassion and respect for others no matter how different or unique they may be.

For the last 18 months, I have been President/CEO of Buckhorn Children & Family Services. During this time, I have learned a lot about being thankful and depending on God’s care and provision. Hidden deep in the Appalachia Mountains is an invisible city of children and youth; the children and youth who reside with us do so because of severe abuse and neglect in their lives. Because of our geographical location, the only way for our ministry to be known is for us to be the voice and face of these whom we serve so that we can find additional resources to meet the needs of our children.

My staff and I have spent many a night praying for God’s provision, knowing that when the sun broke over the eastern sky the next morning, bills would be due and the bank account would be empty. Nevertheless, we held steadfast in our prayers, thanked Him for a century of service to children, and asked for one more blessing so we could serve another day. Each time, we would wake to find God’s provision and blessing!

I’ve been a follower of Christ for 42 years and in fulltime ministry for 24 of those years. As I look through these years, I realize that expressing my thanks to our Heavenly Father may be as powerful as any other discipline of the Christian life. Being thankful compels me to fix my eyes on God rather than on myself. It humbles me. It lifts my mind off of my troubles and anxieties and reminds me that God will always provide for my needs, and that for those who love God all thing work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose (Romans 8:28).


As you approach Thanksgiving, spend time listing God’s blessings in your life. Don’t stop until you’ve identified at least 10-15 blessings. This exercise will force you to think creatively about God’s care and provision—even in the small things.